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Get to Know the Moderators
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Moderators contribute to threads just as other members do. They are held to the same standards when posting as any other member. They do moderate their forums and look for rule violations and may delete and edit posts and close threads without notice, but will typically avoid doing so except in extreme cases. Only a handful of threads have ever been closed or deleted over the lifetime of connick.com. Moderators may discipline and suspend members who fail to adhere to the rules.
Use the Search Feature First
Before starting a thread, use the search feature to see if there's a recent thread on your topic. Many questions come up repeatedly on connick.com. If you're asking a relatively generic question, there's a good chance one or more threads already exist. The search link is located in the upper right corner near the top of the Forums page. Keeping information on the same topic confined to as few threads as possible helps members quickly find the information they need. If you decide to ignore this rule, as many newcomers do, be prepared to be criticized for it by other members (and hopefully, learn from your mistake).
Do Not Start Game Threads
Game threads are not permitted. For example, "the counting game" where the sole purpose of the thread is to reply to the previous post with an incremental number, or "the word association game" where the sole purpose is to reply to the previous post with a single word post. Similar mindless game threads are included in this rule. Members who start game threads will be subject to immediate disciplinary action and may be banned on the spot.
Don't Write Like a Teenager
Don't use text messaging or instant message speak in forum posts, for example, "u" instead of "you." Don't go crazy with punctuation. A few exclamation points is sufficient if you're excited about something. Entire posts in all caps or huge fonts are also not permitted.
Create Descriptive Titles
Make thread titles as specific and descriptive as possible. Sometimes posters will start a thread with a very general title such as, "Guess What?" or "Interesting News". Be as helpful as possible in your thread titles, and if you want to improve or change your thread's title after you create it, ask a moderator in that forum for help. Do not create threads with titles directed at specific people, such as "Hey Bob!" Use private messages for contacting individuals.
Post Your Thread to Just One Forum
Don't post the same thread more than once. Our members read many forums, and weeding through the same message in multiple forums can be frustrating. Duplicate threads will be deleted, combined or locked, and repeat violations will be subject to disciplinary action.
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How to Report Bad Posts
Our volunteer moderators read as much as they can on connick.com, but they can't get to every post, so your help is appreciated in keeping connick.com a polite community. If you see a post that does not comply with the rules, report the post by clicking on the "Report this post" link, at the bottom right corner of each post. Your message will be sent to forum moderators who will review the post.
Members are not allowed to have multiple connick.com usernames. If you are banned, accept it and move on. Or read as a guest -- we can't stop you from doing that, and honestly, we don't care if you do.
Avoid Bumping Very Old Threads
Unless there is a compelling reason, avoid bumping threads that are more than two years old. Often the information is outdated and it clogs the forums, making it difficult to find current threads.
We do not wish to restrict your right to display personal views, ideology, etc. but do ask that you remain respectful of others in your signature lines. Members whose signatures include affiliate links, commercial links, or spam will be subject to immediate disciplinary action.
As a courtesy to members we suggest you follow the these guidelines when creating your signature:
Should you wish not to view signatures, you may shut them off. To do so, go to My Controls -> Board Settings, and remove the checkbox from the item labeled "view members signatures."
- Use the normal posting font size
- Limit your signature to a few lines
- Text should comply with our regular posting rules. No all-caps, no alternating caps, etc.
- Do not make your signature too long or obtrusive through overly creative use of punctuation, color, etc.
- Avoid putting your username in your signature as it's already on the top of each of your posts
Deliberately Misquoting Other Posters
You may use the quote feature to respond to specific posts from other members. However, changing the meaning or words of a quote while still attributing it to the other member is a violation of connick.com's rules. Anyone doing so will be subject to the disciplinary process. The use of ellipses to show a quote was abbreviated is allowed, so long as the original meaning is not lost.
Posting Private E-mails and Messages Without the Author's Permission
This is an invasion of privacy and possibly unlawful. Members who violate this will be subject to the disciplinary process.
Invasion of Privacy
Members posting another user's private information, including but not limited to phone number, address, name or frequent flier number, will be subject to disciplinary action.
Discussing Specific Moderator Actions
On-board discussion of moderator decisions -- including post deletions and member discipline -- is not allowed and will be removed. Members will also be subject to disciplinary action. If you have a question about a moderator action, contact the moderator or forum administrator directly.
We encourage a healthy exchange of opinions. If you disagree with another member, challenge the opinion or idea -- not the person. "Flaming" will not be tolerated and will be removed, and the violator will be subject to disciplinary action. You may challenge others' points of view and opinions, but do so respectfully and thoughtfully.
On the other hand, don't feel the need to tiptoe around specific hot-button issues or people who are easily offended, for example, calling a post offensive because of a differing opinion. This community is not a pre-school. Learn to have discussions with people whose opinions differ from your own without accusing them of attacking you.
Obscene or Offensive Language or Material
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Repeated Posting of Disruptive Posts
Posters who repeatedly post items that create disruption within forums will be subject to disciplinary action.
Abuse of Private Messaging
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Posting to connick.com is a privilege, not a right.
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I hate signature blocks.